Spoken Bride Vendors | Spotlight, Vol. 10

Are you recently engaged and ready to book your wedding vendors? Newly married or attending a wedding, and in search of gifts that affirm the vocation to marriage?

We are proud to serve you through the Spoken Bride Vendor Guide, the first online resource for distinctively Catholic wedding vendors: hand-selected professionals from around the U.S. with not only an abundance of talent, but a reverence and passion for the sacrament of marriage that brings a uniquely personal, prayerful dimension to their client experiences.

From photographers and videographers who understand how to capture the most significant moments of your nuptial Mass, to coordinators who understand the needs of Catholic couples, artists whose jewelry, stationery, and prints become enduring keepsakes long after your wedding day, clinical and theological experts in the fields of fertility and relationships, and beyond, Spoken Bride Vendors view their work as a call and find deep joy in putting their talents at the service of the Lord.

What’s more, our vendors are truly engaging and fun. With a range of stories, hobbies, and devotions, it’s our privilege to share who they are and connect them with their ideal clients--you, faithful Catholic couples who are energized by working with like-minded, prayerful individuals. Each month, we’ll be introducing, or re-introducing, you to members of Spoken Bride’s vendor community, and we encourage you to learn more through their full vendor listings.

Our Vendors for This Month:


Designs by Jessina

Bismark, North Dakota and surrounding areas

Jessina Kary began taking photographs as a hobby. Over time, her skills, experiences and desire to make financial contributions for her growing family inspired a business venture. Designs by Jessina is a way to support couples and to empower marriage throughout the challenges of daily life.

“When I started my photography business, I realized I wanted to do more than just show up for a photo session. I want to cultivate a sense of hospitality and friendship with everyone I work with. Marriage is hard. Life is hard. I want to live the Gospel for the people I encounter simply by my example and by being someone others can talk to. I don’t want to just photograph weddings. I want to see marriages succeed.”

My coffee order: Cream and brown sugar

Love means: Putting yourself last. Apologizing first. Forgiving quickly. Letting go of the small things.

My favorite thing about working on weddings: I would say the wedding day itself. It's busy, but everyone is happy, excited! I enjoy being able to make sure the couple gets a few moments alone for their first look shots, and for the photos of just the two of them - it's most likely the only time they will have alone the entire day - not counting the photographer ;) I also enjoy getting to know the members of the wedding party, the family, and the light banter that goes on throughout the day.

Learn more about Designs by Jessina

 

Fine & Fun Cookie Co.

Sweets delivered throughout the contiguous continental United States

Diane Able has decades of experience as a wife and mother, homemaker and baker. Through the years, a Christmas cookie-baking tradition transformed into a hobby and, now, a professional endeavor. Through Fine and Fun Cookie Co, Diane strives to bring joy to others through her creative cookies. But at the core of her sweet passion is a love for family. 

“My family inspires my work. My husband has supported us in the same job for over 40  years. Because I stayed at home, finances have always been tight. Now that he wants to think about retirement, I want to really make a go of my business so that when he does retire, we can work together.”

Love means: Making things work. Being generous. Trying to be as unconditional as possible. Accepting faults. Saying you're sorry and meaning it if you're at fault. Biting your tongue when you really want to lash out. Being a good listener. Giving your best as often as you think of it.

My favorite books and movies: The Lord of the Rings Trilogy and all books by Jane Austin.

My favorite memory of my wedding day: The moment we took our vows. It was such a spiritual and emotional moment. I loved the confidence in my husband's voice when he spoke his vows before God and me and our friends and family.

Learn more about Fine & Fun Cookie Co.

 

Abbey Rez Photography

Southern California and available for travel

Abbey Reznicek thought she had discerned a vocation to religious life. But her spiritual director encouraged her to pursue film school and the trajectory of her life quickly changed. While at film school, she met her husband. They collaborated on film projects, laughed together, got engaged, planned their own wedding and got married. Now, Abby and her husband use their shared passion for storytelling to tell the love stories of the couples they serve.

“In a culture where traditional marriage and the family is under attack, I feel called to inspire others in their marriage, keeping Christ as the center of their life both on their wedding day and every day after.”

My favorite saints: St. Joseph, St. Therese of Lisieux, and Bl. Pier Giorgio Frassati!

St. Joseph was key in my discernment and ultimately helped bring me to my vocation! I like to consider St. Therese my business partner, as we have dedicated the business to her - in an industry where over-the-top expense is encouraged, I think she is a great role model for every bride because of her simplicity, pleasing Christ being her only desire. Bl. Pier Giorgio Frassati become a patron of our marriage. Verso L'Alto has become our family motto and we named our son Pier Giorgio (Gio for short).

My favorite food: Pizza all the way! I married a Chicago man and we take this very seriously.

Three things on my bucket list: Impact and encourage marriages through our photography business. Travel to Turin where Bl. Pier Giorgio lived and hike one of his mountains. Turn my little patio garden into a home solarium one day.

Learn more about Abbey Rez Photography

 

BEBEATI Catholic Jewelry

Serves clients nationwide

Siggy Everts has been creating jewelry since she was a child. With tools from her father’s iron workshop and an eye for sparkly trinkets, she would make something beautiful out of found materials. She continued making jewelry for many years; it wasn’t until her reversion to the Catholic faith when BEBEATI began. Siggy’s passions for creating beauty and pursuing intimacy with Christ faith meld together through this full-time work. 

“My Catholic faith is the center of my life. Since my reversion, the business was reoriented to creating Catholic jewelry. I have always made jewelry for brides… [now] I can provide an opportunity for brides to purchase their bridal gifts and jewelry from a Catholic source.”

Favorite place I’ve traveled: This is a difficult one. I've been fortunate to have traveled to some beautiful places. I would say, La Salette, France.

The inspiration for my work comes from: God and everything that He created; beaches , landscapes, sky, flowers—anything inspires me and the jewelry I craft. My Catholic faith is the ultimate source of my business and the center of my life.

Languages spoken: English, Portuguese, and Spanish

Learn more about BEBEATI Catholic Jewelry

Vendor Week 2020 | Vendors Share: First Steps, Priorities, + Working With Non-Catholic Vendors

As you book your wedding vendors and plan your wedding-day timeline and events, take advantage of your vendors’ expertise! As pros in their respective fields, your vendors are a valuable source of information and assistance with time management. 

We asked Spoken Bride vendors to share their best, tried and true tips for working with your vendors--either Catholic or non-Catholic--from your first days of engagement and on through your wedding day. Here, their responses:

What first steps can newly engaged couples take as they look into wedding vendors?

Set clear boundaries. I recommend that everyone involved in planning the wedding--bride, groom, and parents--create a personal list of three priorities for the wedding and three things that are not a big deal. Then, compare. Have a conversation with everyone and create a master priority list. This will help guide your decision-making, as well as your budget. to make decisions. 

Online budget creators are a great tool. Once you have your master priority list, [you’re empowered to] create a budget that reflects your personal priorities, not just industry standards. Together, your priority list and budget will help you narrow down the big selection of vendors. -  Savanna Faulkner, Saving the Date (Wedding Coordination)

 This is quite simple, but so crucial: find a resource that lists potential categories of all the wedding vendors you could possibly need. This will help you to nix the vendors you might not want and then hone your list to those that are non-negotiable. From there, you can play with what’s within your budget for the extra niceties, like a photobooth or décor. -Nia Husk, Prolific Services (NFP Instruction and Fertility Education)

Talk with friends and family who have recently gotten married. For instance, if you are looking for a photographer, ask the couple about their experience, and ask for the link to their entire wedding gallery. With these vendors, as well as others you’re considering, ask yourselves: Do they share my same style + wedding vision in their work? Is creating an authentic relationship with clients a priority for their business? Do they reflect love in their work?

Also, ask your venue if they have a list of preferred vendors whom they enjoy working with; those who take amazing care of their couples and provide a fabulous product. And before booking anyone, meet with them in person first! Make sure you vibe together and that they are a fit both creatively and personality wise. - Michelle and Brandon Horn, Horn Photography & Design

What’s distinctive about what Catholic vendors can offer their clients?

Prayers! As I sew a wedding quilt, I always pray for the recipients-:for peace during their wedding preparations, for grace on their wedding day, and for strength in marriage. I also ask the couple (or the gift-giver!) if there are other intentions they would like me to specifically pray for. - Kathleen Wills Causapin, Handmaid Home (Custom wedding quilts)

Choosing practicing Catholic photographers means you will have photographers who know, understand and value the sacredness of the Mass. They will know when and where they can move in the church for the best photos without ever being seen or disrupting the liturgy. Also, a side perk, is that practicing Catholic vendors tend to know most of the priest and staff in the diocese, as they work with them often and see them at mass. The same holds true for Catholic wedding planners and florists - Michelle and Brandon Horn, Horn Photography & Design

My business is relationship-based (which I love!), and I think most Catholic vendors have a similar business model. When your vendor has a relationship-based business and is someone with similar values to you--and your styles jive on top of that!--I think a deeper amount of trust is built more easily. This trust is important when you're investing with so many different vendors for a very important day! 

 Also, as a Catholic vendor, I pray for my clients during their engagement and during the week of the wedding as I’m designing their wedding flowers. Having extra prayers from those who are helping execute your special day is awesome. - Ashley Krupp, Ashley Eileen Floral Design

I always pray for my couples leading up to their wedding day, and keep them in my intentions long after). It's helpful to have vendors who understand the Mass, and know how to be respectful during the ceremony. All in all, I think catholic vendors can help ease some of the stress, and give you a sense of peace as you prep for the sacrament! - Sarah Wirth, Sarah Wirth Photography

Prayer! Whether the day-of or the months leading up to your wedding, the power of prayer that a fellow Catholic can offer you is awesome. Knowing you can ask for that prayer and share that beautiful aspect with your vendors is so cool! I love being able to tell my Catholic clients I am praying for their relationship from day one. - Lauren Noa, Lauren Emily Photography

What are your favorite ways to help couples incorporate their faith into their wedding day?

My favorite way is to encourage a First Prayer prior to the ceremony. This may be back-to-back or a shared Rosary. It is a wonderful moment to add to your day and takes little time to incorporate. - Sinikka Rohrer, Soul Creations Photography

Encouraging couples to provide a beautifully made and thorough Mass program. This is truly an easy opportunity to evangelize non-Catholic guests and encourage everyone to participate in the Mass through song, Liturgy of the Word, and Liturgy of the Eucharist. If you do a Rosary Lasso, washing of the feet for your spouse, blessing of coins, or present flowers to Mary and/or Joseph, you can add these devotions in and explain them in brief. - Nia Husk, Prolific Services (NFP Instruction and Fertility Education)

I love designing the bouquet for Mary that some couples present to her during Mass. I love her, my clients love her, and we all get to honor her on their wedding day with flowers! Oftentimes, I’ll incorporate rosaries or saint medals into a bride's bouquet. I've also had some couples ask for specific flowers tied to their favorite saint, e.g. lilies for St. Joseph and roses for St. Therese. For one of my brides, I was able to use a white rose named after St. John Paul II that I grew from my own garden! If you have a favorite saint, there might be a flower associated with him or her that you can use as a little way to ask for their [intercession]! - Ashley Krupp, Ashley Eileen Floral Design

Our favorite ways to help couples incorporate their faith into their wedding day is to offer times throughout the day that brings in the joy of what we practice as Catholics. For example, inviting couples to provide family religious items for detail shots, a First Prayer or First look right in the church (if allowed by the church), prayer with your bridal party, going to confession right before the Mass if your priest is available, and encouraging our couples to pray together during portraits.- Michelle and Brandon Horn, Horn Photography & Design

I recommend choosing something special related to your faith from your dating days and bringing to the wedding day.  I walked down the aisle with a pair of rosaries my now-husband gifted me while on a trip to Bosnia. I used that rosary every day to pray for our relationship.  After getting engaged, we chose St Padre Pio as our patron to guide us in our marriage. I also find it so special to buy, borrow or receive a piece of jewelry that depicts the Catholic faith, [as gifts between you and your spouse or with your bridal party].   

If there is an opportunity, I recommend that the bride and groom pray before the Tabernacle prior to the processional. In their prayer, they can offer that day up for the sanctity of marriages throughout the world and ask for all Holy Angels and Saints, including their patron saint,  to intercede for their marriage and all married couples always, who entered or will enter into the mystery of this sacrament. - Siggy Evertz, Bebeati Jewelry

How can couples respectfully educate non-Catholic vendors on the religious aspects of the wedding day?

If you choose a non-Catholic photographer, be sure to educate them on the order of the Mass. Often, I'll hear other photographers say that they think of Catholic Masses as being really long without much going on. They stop shooting because, to them, it's redundant. Or they might stay in one spot out of fear that they'll break the church's rules about where a photographer is allowed--some churches are really strict about photographers moving about, but most just want to make sure the photographer is respectful, won't be distracting, and will stay off the altar.  

If it's important to have the Mass documented, you'll need to explain these restrictions and allowances in detail. You might even ask the parish wedding coordinator to help take your photographer around at the rehearsal and identify a safe spot to shoot and where they should be for certain aspects of the ceremony. This can be a lot of information for a non-Catholic to absorb, so I'd suggest they go to the rehearsal and take notes on the program as a cheatsheet. - Claire Watson, Claire Watson Photography

If you are not working with a Catholic photographer, it is important that they know how long your wedding Mass will be and what it means to you as a couple. Assign a friend who knows his or her faith and way around a church and Mass to meet your photographer at the church so they can answer any questions your photographer may have regarding the Mass and what will take place. A non-catholic photographer might not know terms like sanctuary, kneelers, or sacristan. They may not know the order of the Mass, the importance of the consecration, or when you will be able to share your first kiss. Helping them know ahead of time will help your photographer capture the best photos possible.

And the biggest tip: this is your day to soak in all the sacrament of marriage has to offer. Feel the freedom to share your faith with all your vendors! Let them truly know what this day means for you. - Michelle and Brandon Horn, Horn Photography & Design